2) If she's heavy on 1, the man may be making too large of a lead on 1. Try taking a smaller step (while retaining the body lead.) She may be more comfortable taking smaller steps.
3)If she's like a puppy on a long leash, i.e. uncontrollable, you have to lead the entire move, rather than just 'opening the door for her' Keep your frame. This is important for the follower who gets past you by the 2 count. You can't even do a simple tuck if she's already at the end of the slot.
4)If she's lost in her own little syncopation world and letting the connection fail, put her into multiple spinning moves. It will make her concentrate on the connection. And when she's in a neckwrap she can't go for her personal record of 50 body waves in under three and half minutes.
5) If she walks out of her anchor step early, or comes in on 1 ahead of the lead, and the man reacts quickly he can a) stop her, or b) take extra walk-walks back. When a woman tries to walk in early, leave her out there for two more beats. She will never stop doing it if you try to fudge for what she is doing by leading her in on the 6 or 8. Besides it could become a habit that could be hard for a leader to break. It also could (and will) put you off time. I would think the best thing to do would be to lead a lot of basics and keep adding the extra two counts just to get her out of the habit of trying to come in on her own or early.
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